Love – am I making it too complicated?

Am I too demanding? Do I demand too much from life? Some friends tell me so, but I don’t know. I just want to be happy, I guess that is not that radical? I’m a really sensible loving person but my problem is that I have pretty high demands on the girl I want to be with. Perhaps that is wrong?

I just want a special someone (special for me, that is *hehe*) who gives me stimulation, both physically and mentally. I would shoot myself in the head with a thirty-eight magnum if I’d be together with someone who didn’t know who Hitler was or thinks that GDP stands for Gross Danish Porn!

I want to have someone who I learn from and who I can teach. Someone that cares about me and gives me safety and that I can give these things back to too, someone who is aware of her looks and takes care of herself and want to be healthy and dress nicely and demand the same from me! I want someone who is serious with her life and who I feel I can rely on that she can stand on her own feet in the future economically, as I believe in an equal relationship and do not wish to be someone’s sugar daddy. I need someone who has her own opinions interests desires goals and ambitions but at the same time share some of mine. Of course someone as well who I turn on sexually and who likes what I like in sex! Someone who feels genuinely “kind and good-hearted” who has nice innocent eyes and say kind words to me .. Someone who loves me and whom I can love back.

I know I demand a lot but I do not think it is dumb anymore, rather I think it is smart to demand a lot and I know there are girls out there who can fit within these demands. I hope? *lol* I want to be happy and I know what I need and what I don’t need to be happy. I don’t want someone perfect. I want someone who’s flaws are such like I can live with and love as much as I love her good qualities.

Gah, enough with sentimental BS at the moment, I guess 😛

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5 Responses to Love – am I making it too complicated?

  1. Henning says:

    Hey! Gross Danish Porn???

    • tegis says:

      I know 😛 I just had to 😛

      • Henning says:

        I wouldn’t prefer a woman who thinks thoughts like that either.

        It is not easy, and no one is perfect; everyone every woman has defects of her own if you look for them, so it is more whether you’re perfect for one another. As in politics — in most democracies, it is all about compromises. You take some, and you give some, and you stick together.

        You don’t have to agree on everything, and don’t even have to discuss all disagreements.

        Just take a chance with a hot girl and see where it takes you, regardless of the contents in her purse. Spare panties is a plus.

  2. Tara says:

    You will find her, have some faith Tegis;)

  3. tegis says:

    I think I will never do. I am too demanding I think :/

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